how to reach out
Submission form goes to “nicky@iwbyf.org”
This is NOT an emergency service.
Confidentiality
Nothing you share will me will ever be recorded, kept, or used against you in any way. Any communication within the IWBYFnicky emails will be regarded as confidential.
Do not send: photos, full names, addresses, job titles.
say hi to me
what to talk about
I would love to learn about who you are, and why you are. If you would like to ask about me, you are welcome to ask anything, but I will let you know if I’m not comfortable talking about something.
Most of all, I just want to know what you think.
How are you feeling?
Are you doing what you want to?
Do you need advice, or just a listening ear?
How do you dance with an elephant?
Do they get on their hind legs, or do you hold their trunk?
All the serious talk is to make sure people stay safe. All I want everyone to have is more opportunities to reach out to someone who cares. I care too much sometimes, so if you would prefer me not to care as much, I can do that too!
I don’t want to meet you in the middle, I want to meet you where you are comfortable.
I know I would have loved the ability to reach out at various times in my life. I know people need help, now more than ever in my life, so the decision is easy.
Be serious, be stupid, be funny, be dramatic, be yourself. I don’t know who that is, I don’t know who you are, and I want to find out.
reach out to Nicky
If you choose not to use a masked email, you can email me at:
Nicky@iwbyf.org
Normal sleeping hours are 12 am – 8 am US Central Time, with some variance.
I will attempt to reply within one day.
I look forward to hearing from all of you.
